Life is not meant to be comfortable all the time. Constant comfort is not living, adventure is.
–Alyx Michele
Life is not meant to be comfortable all the time. Constant comfort is not living, adventure is.
–Alyx Michele
“Patch Adams’ hello experiment in play today. A simple passing “hello, how are you” turned into a 45 minute conversation about life with a 54 year old man who was raised in NYC, studied psych at NYU, has the same favorite spot in Central Park, worked on Freud’s psychoanalytic theory and Skinnerian behaviorism, quit psych to go into urban economic planning, and worked with the Feds, then became an inventor of various random things in which he had no experience of. Fun fact: you can thank him for the beer can holders in sailboats. Hallelu! He sold his business and is planning on what to do next. You are never too old or too young to change directions and try new things!…including talking to strangers with big fluffy dogs.”
I posted this well before I even knew I was going to work with Patch. My knowledge about him was based solely on the movie and my research on the real Patch and his work. The term “hello experiment” came from the movie, I must admit, though I see the movie as a separate entity than Patch himself. After meeting him and working with him, I now must change “experiment” to “way of life.” Talking to strangers, or even connecting non-verbally is a way of life; a life of community building and connection making, a life of spreading the feeling of relevancy, and a life of learning things you never knew you never knew. Okay that last one came from watching “Colors of the Wind” on Youtube an hour ago, in Icelandic haha, but it still works!
So currently, I tutor as my main source of money. And I love it! I work with students of all ages with a wide range of subjects, including math levels Precalculus and lower, test prep, literature, writing, history, psychology, French, etc. A couple days ago, my French student and I both realized that we suck at the English language. Good thing her grade is dependent on her knowledge of French? Haha
Participles, homonyms, parts of speech, blablabla, all these categories for words and languages that I can identify in French, but not in English. I do particularly enjoy learning languages. I am currently working on French (took 4 years, stopped practicing, now getting it back) and Icelandic (because I go there in December, and also why the hell not?!).
I have noticed that the more I learn about other languages, I seem to like English less and less. I feel like if I wasn’t born into English speaking life, I would not like learning English at all. But my plan is to at least learn enough of the native languages to be able to use as little English as possible in my travels!
I have been researching every country that exists in the world so I have an idea of what I want to do when the time comes for me to go there. Currently, I only have a couple more countries to research in Europe and then Asia, and then I will post my findings. The late hours of staring at a computer screen reading history and feedback, admiring photographs taken by others, and writing down ideas of how I feel I would gain the most of my experiences are so worth it. I have been excited through it all, but as I go through France, the feeling of excitement escalating to an overwhelming level. One, it’s France. I suppose I have more of an attachment to France than other countries since I have been learning the language for four years, but this also means that I am almost done reading about pretty much every place there is in the world. My plan of action: write down what I want to do, research visa requirements, learn about currency exchange rates to prepare my savings, and learn the languages. Plural. All of them? Perhaps. I like learning languages, but knowing a little of a little only goes so far, so now of course I have set my mind to learning as many languages as possible. We shall see how this goes, but that’s the beauty of having the internet and international friends I suppose. Wish me luck!
The answer is I don’t have one. Except for colors…my favorite color is blue, BUT I like them all.
I had a conversation with my coworker about my travel plans. It started with him asking me what was rocking my world. My answer was “the usual.” His response was “really? your life is that good?” Honestly, yeah, it kind of is. Sure, nothing is perfect, and not everything is candy corn and roses (I don’t know where that came from, but it works), but I am pretty darn happy right now. I am on a rush of excitement as I have returned to my travel research and loosely planning. I have gone through all of the countries and islands everywhere except Europe and Asia, and am currently working on Europe. Once I finish the last two continents I will post my tentative itineraries in their respective country Destinations menu options. Anyway, I proceeded to explain why I feel so good in regards to travel research, and he was so confused. Even with my answering his questions, he still doesn’t seem to fully understand it. I don’t expect everyone too, and that is okay. That is what makes discussion a great interaction method. I am not sure if it was that he didn’t understand that I wanted to travel everywhere in the world or if he didn’t understand why or if he didn’t think it was a feasible plan. He asked me what my favorite country was, I said I don’t have one. They are all great and I want to experience as much of their greatness as I can. He laughed and asked “Okay, if you had to pick one, what would your favorite type of food be?” I thought about this one and considered saying sushi, but although I love sushi, there are other foods I like just as much. I don’t have a favorite food. I love anything and everything there is about learning and experiencing other cultures, and picking just one of anything is apparently impossible for me. There is something uniquely special about everything and everyone I encounter. To me, comparing them would seem as unfair, futile even, as comparing apples to oranges. I just can’t. Name something or someone and I can tell you what I find great and unique about them, but it would be very difficult or maybe impossible to pick just one favorite of anything or everyone.
Disclaimer: The content in normal font is the original text from the journal I wrote on this trip when I was eleven, and my comments from current 22-year-old me has about younger me’s writing are italicized.
Day 2
At 4:30 AM, aunt tracy got me up and ready. I almost left my shampoo and conditioner at my aunt’s house. Because those aren’t replaceable. At 5:15 AM, my grandma came to take us to the airport. Gary was there too. Seriously where are all these people coming from? I feel like Tex Avery was just having a ball these couple of days. Aunt Tracy and I waited in line at the check-in for about 45 minutes. The trick to avoid this is to have flights at awful hours super early or super late when no one wants to deal with it..but youll be one of the few people there and don’t have to stand for ridiculous hours. Eh even if your flight is at a normal time, just get there way early and chill at the airport, talk to people, make connections even before anyone takes off. After we passed the security, we went to starbucks for breakfast. How did I survive this long without food? I had a café latte and a blueberry muffin. Our airline is Air Canada to Vancouver. I got headphones and listened to classical. I found out that the back of my gameboy battery cover broke, so when I play, it feels weird. I still have the gameboy, it still has no back, and I still occasionally play it. Warioland for the win. Aunt tracy taught me how to blow bubble gum, with regular gum. It was very hard and I only got one bubble. I still struggle with this skill regardless of the gum. For drink on the plane, I had ginger ale towards Canada. I still always have ginger ale on my flights. I played an activity card game with my aunt. We had lunch at the airport. I had a mocha latta chill and a shrimp tempura bowl from cinnabon. Cinnabon has tempura bowls? The tempura bowl was pretty much like a cup of noodle bowl. ah, there it is. It got soggy. It was pretty good actually. How low were my standards then? Oh, I almost forgot, I am still waiting for the plane to go to China. I am so excited already. Our flight is 10 hours and 50 minutes at an altitude of 30,000 feet. Good thing I was afraid of heights. For the first set of drinks I had Chinese tea. For the snack with the drink, we had Chinese trail mix. I am listening to classical again. The first movie I watched was “After the Sunset.” It is about two diamond thieves. I liked it. That’s all the description we get? Really? I will go back and watch it now because I am curious. For lunch-ish on the plane, I had a twinkie like dessert, what? gingerale for drink surprise, a salad that I didn’t eat also surprising, and a stirfried pork and noodle dish that I ate with chopsticks. I watched an episode of Taxi which was very funny. I also saw an episode of Alias. But of course it was adjusted so that kids can watch it. I had two more cups of tea and worked on my TIME magazine homework project for a little while. Awww how cute I cared about school haha at least enough to bring work on vacation. I am pretty sure the final project is still on the table at my mom’s house…I kind of want it but it is probably better off on that table than on the table at my place where it would end up. The next movie that was on was Sideways. For dinnerish I had a nasty pork and rice dish with a sauce. For dessert, I had a vanilla icecream cup and fruit. For drinks I had a coke. No gingerale? I had another cup of tea, but spilled most of it in my hair. Ughh! How? I am sooo taking a long shower tonight. At this time we have 1.5 hours until we land in Beijing. For snack, I had chicken flavored cup of noodle soup that we bought, and more tea. What? I could hardly resist it. It was so good. When we were landing, I saw the wall. I was assuming everyone who reads my journal to know which wall. The Berlin Wall, duh! We got off the plane and went into our hotel room at Jian Gou Garden Hotel. Our hotel in Beijing has an indoor pool, a beauty salon, a fitness area, gymnastics, games, and pretty much anything else you can think of. I started feeling sick so my aunt and I went down to the lobby to have a cappuchino to keep me awake for dinner when we meet the tour guide and the other tourists. Coffee is always the cure…let it be known. I am the only kid. When we sent an email to my mom and Gary, we found out that we had $200 of Japanese money, instead of Chinese. I mean…its close? So my aunt had to go to the atm for an exchange. We met our companions and our guide named Bo. We had a meeting before we went to dinner. I almost didn’t make it because I hadn’t slept for 26 hours. So coffee isn’t always the cure. That’s kind of disappointing. Buuuuut I will still drink it, she says as she holds a large vanilla bean doubleshot coffee and protein drink. It is currently 12:30AM but I don’t have work tomorrow and I set a goal to finish typing up my china journal by the end of the weekend. For dinner we had white rice, spicy lamb, delicious pork, and roast duck. We also had this lemon-sweet chicken which was quite tasty. All of the animals? I do remember liking the sauce that comes with the duck more than the duck itself. I haven’t had duck since then, but that was more because I became vegetarian less than a year later for a significant amount of years. For dessert, there was watermelon and for drink, I had jasmine tea. Watermelon as a dessert…you know? I am totally okay with this. We went back to our hotel, I took a shower and a bath. I thought I was tired. I got ready for bed because we will be getting a wake up call at 7:30AM. Good night to me. Finally! Oh so I AM writing to me…I know what my aunts name is. Sixth grade logic.
In the journal I wrote as an eleven year old, seen in posts referring to China in 2005. Wow that was a decade ago already. I wrote a lot, but unfortunately it seems more of a “this is what I did” diary without comments on how the experience actually was for me. I also, refer to my aunt as “my aunt” instead of her name frequently because apparently im talking to someone who doesn’t know her? Also there are red pen marks everywhere in the writings as though I am proofreading or grading myself? In a different font, I wrote more about my experiences and how I felt and what I saw and my reactions towards what younger me wrote. I fill in the blanks about my experiences with what I remember. It is interesting what the memory retains. Some things I remember like they happened earlier today and other things I don’t recall at all. I have learned my lesson: record everything now and sort through it later. I believe I did that for my most recent Peru trip, and will have posts about that trip when I get to it haha.
Some things eleven-year-old me left out were the sanitation, my TIME magazine, and the tv shows. So briefly, whenever you need to relieve yourself, it appears you can do that anywhere. If your nose works, be mindful and prepared. Granted this is based on ten years ago so maybe it is different now! I did see a little boy peeing in the middl of Tieneman Square, so that was interesting. My sixth grade geography project was to pick a country and create our version of a TIME magazine. Since I knew I was going to china before the project, I picked that. I believe I attempted interviews, inserted pictures, wrote some articles, and hand painted the cover based on the cover image of a real TIME magazine. As for TV shows, I watched Chinese tv shows in the hotel room and enjoyed them more than some of the shows I was watching at home at the time. Not all of them had subtitles, but I still enjoyed the ones without them because it was fun reading expressions and understanding what was happening at least on some level that way.
Disclaimer: The content in normal font is the original text from the journal I wrote on this trip when I was eleven, and my comments from current 22-year-old me has about younger me’s writing are italicized.
Day 10
We had breakfast at the hotel buffet again. I had a cup of tea and noodles. We went outside to go to an aquarium but I got a really bad cramp in my ribs to the point where I couldn’t breathe very well. I stayed home and waited. Aunt tracy came back with three packs of chopsticks for gift. We went to the aiport and had lunch there. I had a bowl of beef and noodles. It was a little spicy. We got on to the plane and I had ginger ale for the first round of drinks. For the first meal I had a disgusting chicken dish with ginger ale. For the second time, I didn’t eat the plane food. I ate a cup of noodles that I got in china. I don’t know what flavor it was because it was in Chinese. When we got to the airport, we called gary and my mom to ask them where we should meet them when we get back to LA from Canada. And thaaaaaaaaaaat’s all folks!
Disclaimer: The content in normal font is the original text from the journal I wrote on this trip when I was eleven, and my comments from current 22-year-old me has about younger me’s writing are italicized.
Day 9
I got up at 7 am to have breakfast. I didn’t sleep very well. I kept getting up and aunt tracy woke up with a headache. We had breakfast at the hotel. After breakfast, we walked over to where we seemed to have bought everything. I bought a pair of red slipper shoes, another outfit (pink), a panda, and a chop (stamp) with ink. I still have all of these too. We went back to the hotel shortly and left to go on a three hour cruise. We went to Haagen dazs and had a double soop of “cookies and cream and tiramisu.” Aunt tracy had a caffe latte. On our cruise, there were tables to sit at. I had pepsi and gum. Appetizing. Tonight we are having our farewell dinner. I wore my light pink dress from America. We went to bed earlier than usual. Wow I had so much to say about this day…
Disclaimer: The content in normal font is the original text from the journal I wrote on this trip when I was eleven, and my comments from current 22-year-old me has about younger me’s writing are italicized.
Day 8
We had breakfast at the hotel. It was a buffet also, but they didn’t have bacon or anything like that. I had two pieces of toast, rice congee, black tea and other stuff that wasn’t very good. To the Chinese I am tall. I stand at a solid 152.4 cm! We went to a museum and saw a lot of ancient artifacts. After that we went to the Jin Mao Tower. It is 88 stories high. I got an ice cream cone and got in the elevator to the 87th floor observation deck. I got sick because I am still afraid of heights. Ew. I got a sprite to slow down the taste. That doesn’t even make sense. Good job. I had lunch down at the bottom of the building. The only people that weren’t with us were Max, Mac, Lynn, and Gary. We ended up seeing them briefly but they didn’t come back with us. We had lunch at the tower. I had a grilled ham and cheese sandwich and an apple puff. We ate a lot of American food for not being in America. I don’t do that anymore on principle. On our way to a psychedelic tunnel under water, teenage boys came up and tugged on my backpack. I would say this wasn’t my best experience but it was okay. I mean I survived. Aunt Tracy yelled at them aha. Silly hooligans. The tunnel was cool because there were different sections of lights that you could get a seizure from the flashing. We went to the hotel and watched some diving. Damn they have skills! We took showers and then met downstairs to go to an acrobatic show. Even I could do some of that stuff. Only some though.